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Prepare well for family dispute resolution

Practical online courses for people getting ready for Family Dispute Resolution (FDR), negotiation, and safer participation. Plain language, your own pace, and nothing you have to rush.

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Good preparation doesn’t guarantee agreement. What it does is make the process clearer, so you know what lies ahead, what matters to you, and how to talk about it with confidence.

Choose the course that fits

Not sure where to start? If safety is on your mind, begin with the free Safety Planning course. If you are sorting out arrangements for children, choose Parenting. If it’s about money and assets, choose Property.

Preparing for FDR Parenting

Arrangements for children are the part most people care about most, and the part that feels hardest to talk about. This course walks you through the process before you are in the room.

  • The purpose of FDR and the role of the FDR practitioner
  • Preparing for intake and pre-mediation discussions
  • Safety and suitability screening
  • Identifying the issues that need to be resolved
  • Developing realistic parenting proposals
  • Keeping discussions focused on the best interests of the child

The aim isn’t to tell you what outcome to seek. It’s to help you arrive prepared.

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Preparing for FDR Property

A structured overview of property and financial matters after separation, so the paperwork doesn’t catch you out on the day.

  • The purpose and structure of property FDR
  • Preparing your financial information
  • Identifying and valuing assets and liabilities
  • Superannuation
  • Financial contributions and future needs
  • Accurate disclosure and organised documentation

This course doesn’t provide individual legal or financial advice.

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Mediating online

Illustration of a phone with a heart speech bubble, representing support online.

Online mediation suits many people, and it’s worth knowing what to expect before you log in. You’ll usually join from a private location, and each participant can be placed in a separate online meeting room.

Why people choose it

  • It works when participants live in different locations.
  • It can fit around work or parenting commitments.
  • It can give you more physical separation during the process.
  • It can make access easier if physical venues are hard for you.

Zoom: how to get ready

  • Joining a meeting
  • Checking audio and video
  • Using microphone and camera controls
  • Understanding the meeting screen
  • Using chat where appropriate
  • Accessing separate meeting rooms
  • Testing your equipment and connection before mediation

Online mediation doesn’t remove the need for careful preparation, privacy, and safety planning. Test your setup the day before, not five minutes beforehand.

Why ResFam

We build these courses around what people need on the day. That means plain language, no unnecessary complexity, and an honest heads-up about the parts people tend to trip over.

ResFam brings professional dispute resolution experience to the learning, so you understand the process you’re about to walk into. Preparation won’t make the conversation easy. It will make it clearer, and that’s worth a lot.

Who is behind it

ResFam was founded by experienced dispute resolution professionals, working across mediation, negotiation, FDR, and professional education. We believe people make better decisions when they understand the process, the issues, and their choices. So we keep adding resources to help you prepare for hard conversations and take part well.

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